In case you were wondering, no, I did not morph into a White woman, suddenly find myself pregnant and flee to France. What did happen though, my natural interests in many things French and the human psyche piqued my interest enough to pick up both titles. Now, I know what you're thinking - what is a young twenty-something Black man with no children on the way or to speak of looking for in a book related to "French" parenting? Well, after reading both books, I realized how it's contents are connected to most of our societal problems in America, but more on that later.
To be brief, my interests and tastes over the last few years has been steadily shifting with each new acquaintance I've made, especially if they were not born or spent their formative years in America. Whenever possible, I love hearing about their backgrounds and how it differed from my humble Brooklyn beginnings, even if those beginnings were pretty similar to what were written by both of these authors.
Learning a great deal about some subtle
(and not so subtle) differences between America and other developed nations across the globe had me feeling very conflicted about the country of my birth. From our gun culture to wedding culture to pop culture to the way we consume food, down to how menswear is approached in America in comparison to Europe, for instance, I find myself leaning towards a more liberal, "worldly" point of view.
Don't get me wrong, it goes without saying that every first world nation has their respective laundry list of problems and none of these statements are complete blanket statements, either. There are lots to love about this great country. I am merely expressing how I viewed the world at one point and how I presently view it.
Which brings us back to these two books and why I felt the urge to read them. I've always considered myself pretty good with children, rarely have I come across a little one who didn't warm up to me shortly after meeting them. Along with that, I honestly do look forward to getting a little older and inviting children into the picture when the time is right. In the meantime, part of me does wonder, "how exactly does a French parent raise their child in comparison with how I understand the ways American children are raised?"